NOT A GOLD MEMBER SO IF I CANT MESSAGE SORRY! Very Boring sex life with my ex. I've been truly single for 5 years, just not legally, till now! I'm excited to explore my fantasies.... Also, i know its petty but i want to do thing i never would've been able to do with the ex. I dont hate, was just over having to masterbate wanna help? I've looked into some of the new to me, swingers resorts and it looks fun! I am very comfortable in my own skin..., but i'd like someone into the newness of exploration. I'm a total exhibitionist, and have enjoyed 3 somes, (FFM & MFM but prefer MFM) and would like to explore, group, GB, parties, Bondage, (find out if i'm a sub or brat) I like a man to take control, i like it rough but not painful if that makes sense. also love to make out and have a cuddle. I'm a fan of intimacy and dont think one needs monogamy to have it. Speaking of relationships, Ive never been one to hunt them down or avoid them. I am super independent, and happy on my own. I don't NEED a man, but sometimes I like having one around...

Der ideale Mensch für mich Lookswise i like a pretty face, or one with character. i prefer no facial hair, but i am enjoying a good stache these days. not a fan of a beards really... and i like a person groomed everywhere.... i am.... i like skin on skin...I'm mad for a cute bum and abs, but personality always wins in the end. I'm anything but a gym bunny. but i've had the gym boys enjoy my curves... also I'm a sucker for blue eyes tattoos and great style but hopefully our clothes will be on the floor... These days i'm more of a cougar than anything, I'm essentially a big clumsy kid in sexy panties, so hopefully you like that sort of thing.
above all, say what you mean and mean what you say. i'm a big girl and i can handle the truth. I like my expectations managed. more into an FWB but honesty can get you everywhere.
Also, lets be clear. I'm looking to have some slutty fun, but I'm not DTF anyone, just because i'm on here.. A match is a consideration, not a guarantee. Please don't be a douche. I prefer a gentleman till its time for you not to be one. I don;'t like drama and avoid it at all costs, but baby has a temper when she's pushed too far.... So, lets both be honest with our intentions and respectful. You never know when someone has had a rough day and why pile on?