The philosophy I live by is stay relaxed, stay mellow, stay loose and be open to whatever happens. Commitment-wise, I just want a secret no-strings fling that gives us both what we're missing. When I go out, I go with the flow, and end up where I end up. I get along best with people who have a positive attitude. For me a perfect Friday night is a discreet encounter with a hot friend. I look forward to seeing how the online dating world works. If you contact me I might not reply immediately since I'm new to this and still a bit shy. I'm not changing my life, I'm just trying to make it more interesting.