I am not currently a paid member. I cannot look at your profile. I cannot send you a message. I can respond to your message, but you have to send the first message. And when you send a message, please include your profile and a picture would be nice. WARNING: To any institutions/pers using this site, or any of its associated sites, for studies or projects: you do NOT have our permission to use ANY of our profile information (including text and/or photographs, videos) in any form, or forum, both currently and/or in the future. If you have already done so, or intend to do so, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy, and the violation will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. I like to meet people. Messaging and email leave a lot of room for misinterpretation, so I prefer a face to face meeting. I don't have a "type", I like to meet someone before I make any decisions, but usually guys more then 10 years my senior don't interest me. There are always exceptions though, so if you are interested, and can accept that we may only be friends, say hello. Which applies to everyone, not everyone is compatible, we may meet and realize that we don't have anything in common. This is okay, I don't mind meeting people and finding that we have nothing in common. I don't dismiss people outright, I believe that there are always exceptions, sometimes someone you think isn't someone you would be interested in surprises you. I am looking for an ongoing relationship, I know there seems to be a large number of people on this site who are looking for someone to hold for a night, but there is also a large number of people that are looking for something a little more lasting. Both are okay, we all have needs, and even though I am looking for a relationship, sometimes we just need a release. The way I see it, if we both are clear in what we are looking for, we shouldn't have any problems. I will admit that there are guys I would like to see naked for a few hours and there are guys that I wouldn't mind seeing naked every morning for the rest of my life. I will not say that relocation is impossible, but my budget is tight, so I will not be dropping everything and hopping on a plane to meet you this weekend. I have a dominant side, and I am exploring that. I am interested in bondage, discipline, CBT, and TT. I can play gently or a little rougher, depending on your tastes. I am masculine, I don't demand that of you, but it would be good if we shared a few interests. I enjoy classic cars, going to car shows, and being outdoors. I like to cook, watch a good movie, read, listen to music, and cuddle too. I am out, but that isn't the case for everyone. I see a lot of ads that talk about a discreet relationship, and I believe in discretion. I feel that what happens between you and I should remain between you and I. 99% of the time, I will not host. But there are always exceptions. Lastly, I originally wrote this as a joke, but it isn't completely. I do not have sex with strangers, tell me your name. I don't need your life history before we meet, but knowing your first name is important to me. If I send you a message, I sign my name to it. I like to know who I am talking with, so having a first name makes you more tangible,more than just words on a screen.

Der ideale Mensch für mich First off, you have to be real. I am on here to meet people. Whether that is for a drink or for something considerably longer. If you are only here for cyber, that's fine, just say so. We should all be adults here, saying that you aren't interested isn't going to hurt my feelings.

I don't require that you have a perfect physique, I don't. But if you do have a perfect physique, I can appreciate that.

I do require that we have some interests in common. A relationship will not last very long if there is nothing that we enjoy doing together.