Ok, I guess it's time to update this thing. I have a #1 Rule to which I will refer repeatedly if necessary - AT LEAST One Meet & Greet is required before we go any further. That means no sexual expectations or obligations. This is to ensure our safety and to make sure there is mutual attraction. If we get along and we're both still interested, we can take it from there and make plans from there. If you have a problem with this rule, don't bother reading any more. It is NOT negotiable. P.S. Ten minutes of chit chat does not count as a first meeting. Touching in any way besides a hug is considered "sexual" so no I don't give or receive massages... And your hotel room is NOT a public place. If you are still reading this, I applaud you. The rest of my profile is much more pleasant, I promise...)  I know this site isn't intended for what I'm looking for, but I figure anyone can be anywhere, so why not? I'm not into sex with random people...been there, done that, over it. I find it's better to have a real connection to the man I'm intimate with. Please be honest. If you're looking for a one-night stand/fuck buddy/hit and quit...whatever...then say so. I'm not interested...but at least be honest about it. What I want is a good friend that I can hang out with, do things, laugh, go out to dinner or a movie...then come home and have a good time. Maybe that's too much to ask. Basically, looking for ONE nice guy to spend time with and have fun...boy do you have to kiss a lot of toads to find him! By the way, If your whole profile is "prefer not to say" then I prefer not to hear from you. Oh...and there's a secret about my photo...if I like you, I'll let you in on it. If you are MARRIED or ATTACHED, please DO NOT contact me.

Der ideale Mensch für mich I prefer men who are around 6' or taller and muscular...meat on the bones.
Tend towards men who look like they work for a living...construction worker/biker type.
As for the non-physical...honest, good sense of humor (mine tends to be dry and sarcastic), have to be able to joke around and not take life too seriously.