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Saying no thanks isn't always easy. 16.1.2004
I don't think a lot of women are being snobbish. It seems
so rude to say no thanks, not interested. It would seem that
if a woman doesn't reply, that is her answer. Sometimes,
when I have replied in such a way, men will get angry, so I
think it depends on the man and there is no way of knowing
which type he is.
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i'll pass 15.1.2004
i went to a party, one time, i met a really hot guy.We chatted
for some time, and one thing led to another.Oh, yea and
the party so happened to be at his place.Well, there we
were in his room have awesome sex, when the door opened
, and there stood a big guy with his cock hanging out.the
guy i was in bed with went on to tell me he shares the best things
with his bestfriend.well i was turned ...
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its webcams too 12.1.2004
re the article on the lady who says that men leave there cell
phones numbers on emails, well it also happens if they
know that you have a web cam here in the uk.many times my msn
has flashed to say that a contact wants to speak to me and
when i click on to them they always invite themselfs to view
my webcam.to me this is damm right rude and pushy you should
never invite yourself to view a ...
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A Simple "No Thank You" Will Do! 8.1.2004
We don't know how other people feel about this but,
the one thing that agravates the hell out of both of us are
the countless number of couples and single women especially
who don't answer their mail. If you have a profile or
personal ad posted seeking the company of others, the polite
thing to do is respond to mail you get in response to your
profile or ad.
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We get a lot ...
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Do unto others as you would have them do unto you?? 6.1.2004
OK...having read the many articles relative to common
courtesy, in saying "no thank you", I have to
add the above title.
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It is called the "Golden Rule." And it works!
Most the time.
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Having said that, I do agree with the people who have had
the negative experience of tying to be polite, only having
the recipient come back to argue the point, or worse, use ...
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Politeness both ways 3.1.2004
I have chatting with several people on Transen Kontakte. Most are very
nice. Some, however, are really nasty once they find out
you aren't exactly what they want.
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My profile clearly states that I am married and looking
for a discrete affair and I am up front with anyone with whom
I chat. But more then once, a woman has decided to berate
me for it. To lecture me on immorality seems odd, ...
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Know how to say No NICELY 2.1.2004
Hi all. Maybe I'm just a softie at heart, but I have a
really hard time saying "no" to requests I get.
A lot of people just ignore requests they don't like.
Or they string people along, thinking they are being "nice".
<br>
The best thing, absolutely the nicest thing you can do,
is to tell people the truth. We are all adults here. We know
that all of us have different wants, needs ...
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Please Be Honest 2.1.2004
I have taken out three people I met on Transen Kontakte. After each date
all three said they would like to go out again. Two of them
ask me out again, I ask the other. Then the same responce,
nothing. Why cant you just be honest and say "No Thank
You". The pain of being ask out and stood up is worse
than being told no thank you.
2 Kommentare, 49 Angesehen,
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Reply to No Manners 30.12.2003
I agree that not to respond to an email when someone has made
the effort to write one is rude, I don't care if you are
a person who gets 100 emails a day, or 2 emails. I do understand
that if that person doesn't match your criteria, then
fine, maybe a response is not justified, but when the person
actually does match your profile, and you still don't
respond, that is just being lazy. The ...
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Lack of honesty 29.12.2003
This is just a friendly bit of advice to all the women and
couples who are barraged on here by single men -- Please
be upfront --- Saying no is better than no reply.
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Re: Rude People 29.12.2003
I understand what your saying. I made it pretty clear in
my profile that I'm a virgin and all the guys who read
it automaticly assume that i'm looking to lose it.
I've been known to not respond to some messages sent
to me too. With a site like this, a lot of guys on here just
assume that the women on here also want just sex and even
more than that. I feel if you tell a guy "No Thanks" ...
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Replying in a timely manner 26.12.2003
Is it necessary to reply the same day when we receive an email?
Sometimes we dont check our email for a few days, and some
couples get annoyed when we dont respond right away. Is
there any written rules on this? Probably not
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Why do some swingers feel like being assholes? 25.12.2003
Why can some swingers not just say no thank you or some other
responce...heck sitting around trying to see if someone
might be interested...it would be much nicer had the couple
just said no..and the worst thing I want to say about is single
men...I am sorry, but damn it it is nothing personnal...no
thanks means just that...the wife aand I can find a single
stud anytime of the day or night ...
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how do I say no 25.12.2003
I keep running into the problem of saying no to girls. I had
girlfriends that I really liked and wanted more than sex
but that's all they wanted and I couldn't find
myself saying no to them. What are good ways for me to do that?
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MOMMA DIDN'T TEACH YOU MANNERS? 23.12.2003
I've chatted with both men and women on this site (I'm
a female) and I must say, there are some extremely rude people
here. Just because this is a site focused on sexual relations
does not give one the license to be rude. Of course there
are those who just don't "get it", (no need
for the list). I am refering to the basic, "Thank you,
Good-nite, Bye, etc...
In CyberSex we are still ...
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respect 15.12.2003
Please guys, read profiles first. Those women who are not
just out for sex don't want horney emails before they
get to know you!
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Why is it 11.12.2003
Why is it that some people can not take no for an answer. After
all aren't we all adults here? I come across this all
the time. Call me picky if you want to but, this is a free country
and we all have the choice of who we want to be with. It just
irks me when someone writes to me and I very nicely tell them
I don't feel there is any spark or chemistry and many
times I have gotten very nasty ...
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Try to be considerate 9.12.2003
I have attempted some contacts on Transen Kontakte but only a couple have
replied. I realize that the ladies here probably get more
email than most of the guys and it is hard to answer all of
them but would it hurt you ladies to try to at least send a
real message (not auto-reply) response even if you aren't
interested? I'ld like to think I'm considerate
and not crude in my contacts, it would be nice to ...
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how to tell a woman no thanks 28.11.2003
If you meet a woman and find out it is'ent there.
Just be a gentalman and finish the date and take her back
to her car or home, and tell her thank you for the date but
I just don't think it was there what we are both looking
for but i did have a good time and hope we still can chat and
be friends, i don't want you to think it's you it's
just i don't feel that spark. do you know what i'm ...
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Anyone else have problems saying "No" when presented w/fine opportunities? 23.11.2003
I mean, when a woman you KNOW is bad for you wants you and she
is really fine....does anyone else have a problem saying
"no" when you know you should?
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Just another one liner???? 19.11.2003
When you men send a response to a female and all it says is
Great tits! lets fuck! With no pic and then on YOUR profile
nothing filled out! Well I guess we should just allll jump
on that one right girls! We women at Transen Kontakte DO get to pick and
choose who we consider to be OUR hottest choices! I admit
it I sure do! MY fuck friends are in my book of HOTTIES! Sooooooo
maybe when you ...
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how do you say no and be nice 13.11.2003
sometime i am looking to hook up w/ someone over the internet,
and then they send me their picture and it makes me want to
hurl! i'm not trying to be mean but that's the truth.
in any case, how do you say "no thanks" without
being a complete jerk?
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Just say no 11.11.2003
When someone say's No, they must, and do mean it.
If it's you out there, wanting to say no, and you can't
because you are scared to hurt there feelings, just say
no.
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How to react when a lady say "no thanks"? 9.11.2003
I meet a lady friday. During weeks she send me e-mails saying
she was very intersted to meet me. A lot of teezing, you know.
We could pass the night together, make love all night, ...
I meet her at the restaurant, I pay everything. And then
she says "no thanks". It is really an abuse.
A lot of manipulation. And then she goes at an other get together
and she tell me! I mean... ...
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How to say no thanks online 9.11.2003
Let's say that you've been talking to someone
online for a few weeks. You are really getting to know each
other and the way she described herself really makes you
think that she is attractive. Then when she finally sends
you a picture you find that she is extremely unattractive.
How do you let her down. Do you just stop talking to her, do
you tell her that she is ugly. What do you do?
0 Kommentare, 14 Angesehen,
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Why would you ignore an Auto-Reply? 30.10.2003
I have auto reply set up and it clearly states that if you
don't get a reply... then you probably won't get
one, so thanx, but no thanx.
<br>
Being a (really hot) single woman on this site means that
I get lots of emails every day. I don't spend all my free
time on the internet and I'm here because I don't
really have the time nor inclination to go out and meet people
and ...
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Sex site 30.10.2003
this is the Transen Kontakte site. If all you are looking
for is friends and NOT sex...then try the regular friendfinder.com
site
I really hate getting responses saying..."lets
be friends"...I want to fuck!
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Single Girl meeting Couples 26.10.2003
I am a single hot girl with a passion for men and women. I have
met with several couples on Transen Kontakte. Some experiences were
great, some left a bad taste in my mouth. I've finally
learned how to leave feeling great.
<br>
Here's the dilemma: once all three of you have ackgnowledged
you find each other attractive and you are all horny, how
do you say no after meeting on a sex website?
...
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Reality check for guys from a guy......... 23.10.2003
To all the guys who are complaining about the lack of responces
from women I have one suggestion for you....
Go to the browse page and checkout the numbers of women vs
men in your state....
I'm thinkin you're gonna find that men out number
the women by a large margin... As much as 10 to 1 in some cases....
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out....
They get more responces ...
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Why does it have to be so difficult? 13.10.2003
In everyday life, it's easy for someone to say "No",
or "No Thank You" in just about any given situation.
Why, then, is it so difficult for someone to respect those
words when you're behind closed doors. In personal
experience(s), we've run into a few pushy people.
I think it's a common thing really. However, those
people have completely respected our wishes. Out at a club,
it takes a ...
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