Wow, looks like the to msg has gone up yet again. from to points in a relatively short time. pretty soon we will all be heading to newer better cheaper sites. I suppose they will do what the market can bear.
Countless times I reach out on this site just to say hello. No response, more times than you can imagine. does not have to be any great expectation. Who knows, I may have the turn on to your next great affair, or the connection to who it may be. Just being courteous nothing, and can offer great rewards. Be nice and enjoy each other. Its how its meant to be.
Many complain that standard members are free loaders and the site does not care about them. Yes, they would rather have them as paying customers but, allowing standard customers boosts the numbers making the site seem more impressive and successful. It truly is a love hate relationship. would like to see the reinstatement of some free IM chats (limited is fine). That also enhances the connection opportunities for the paying customers. Face it, just because you pay membership does not mean you are any better or worse than the non paying member.